Farewell Service

Hymns, readings and a printed program for a Christian funeral

Catholic Funeral Mass: the order of the service

The structure of the Funeral Mass in the Order of Christian Funerals. The ritual words belong to the Church’s copyrighted liturgical books, so only the outline is given here. Your parish priest or musician confirms every choice.

Structure only15 partsStart a program from it

Plan with this order

  1. Reception of the body

    At the church door the priest greets the family, sprinkles the coffin with holy water and the pall is placed over it.

  2. Entrance hymn · a hymn
  3. Opening prayer

    Said by the priest.

  4. First reading · a reading

    From the Old Testament (in the Easter season, it may come from Acts or Revelation). Read by a family member or friend.

    See the old testament options

  5. Responsorial psalm · a psalm

    Usually sung by the cantor.

  6. Second reading · a reading

    From the New Testament. Read by a family member or friend.

    See the new testament options

  7. Gospel · a reading

    Read by the priest or deacon.

    See the gospel options

  8. Homily

    Given by the priest or deacon. The Church asks that it not be a eulogy.

  9. Prayer of the faithful

    Often read by a family member.

  10. Preparation of the gifts · a hymn

    Family members may bring up the bread and wine.

  11. Communion hymn · a hymn
  12. Words of remembrance (if your parish allows) · your own words

    Many parishes allow one short remembrance by a family member before the final commendation; others ask that it be given at the vigil or the reception. Ask your parish.

  13. Final commendation and song of farewell · a hymn

    The coffin is incensed while the song of farewell is sung.

  14. Recessional hymn · a hymn
  15. Rite of committal

    At the cemetery or mausoleum.

Source: Order of Christian Funerals (ICEL, 1989; US edition). The Church’s ritual texts are copyrighted and are not reproduced. Your priest or deacon leads the rite; your parish confirms every choice.