Farewell Service

Hymns, readings and a printed program for a Christian funeral

’Tis Better to Have Loved and Lost (In Memoriam XXVII)

by Alfred Tennyson (1809–1892)

Reads in about 1 minute16 linesNon-religious

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I envy not in any moods
The captive void of noble rage,
The linnet born within the cage,
That never knew the summer woods:

I envy not the beast that takes
His license in the field of time,
Unfetter'd by the sense of crime,
To whom a conscience never wakes;

Nor, what may count itself as blest,
The heart that never plighted troth
But stagnates in the weeds of sloth;
Nor any want-begotten rest.

I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.

About this text

Poet
Alfred Tennyson, 1809–1892
Printing used
In Memoriam A. H. H. (1850), canto XXVII
First published
1850
Public domain
This printing 1850, before 1931
Often chosen
for a man, for a woman, for a husband or wife, non-religious, short